In the Baggage Coach Ahead

Rinkenberger Stumpf WeddingOne of the pleasures of researching family history, is stumbling across a good story. Sometimes they are love stories, or war stories, or funny stories. But recently I came across a poignent tragedy, a real tear-jerker.

In the last couple of weeks I’ve made real progress in searching my wife’s side of the family. The breakthrough came in locating information about two sisters of my wife’s GG Grandfather, Adam Geldmacher. Adam had two younger sisters, Victoria and Catherine, and I was fortunate enough to locate a living descendent of Victoria, Kathy, who has done much amazing work on her ancestors, and as genealogists so typically do, she gladly shared with me. Among the many names I was able to add to our tree thanks to Kathy help was Victoria’s daughter, Mary Stumpf, who married George Rinkenberger on August 16, 1887 in Farmdale, Illinois at the age of 19. From the information that Kathy provided, I saw that Mary died at the young age of 23, and I asked her if she knew anything about the cause of Mary’s death, and she had this story to share.

William & Mary RinkenbergerMary and her husband William had left Illinois and moved to Kansas, and had recently become parents with the birth of their son George in February of 1891. Sadly, just three months later, on May 11th, 1891, Mary died of pnumonia. William returned to Illinois by train, bringing his wife’s body home to be buried. On the train ride, the baby cried and fussed, a dilemma that any parent traveling with a baby can sympathize with. And the other passengers complained to William, and asked him why he didn’t give the baby to its mother to be soothed. He let them know that he wished that he could, but that she was dead in the baggage coach ahead. With this revelation, other women on the train took care of the baby for the remainder of the trip.

The incident was supposedly witnessed by a train porter, who retold the story in a poem that was later put to music and published by Gussie L. Davis in 1896 in a song titled, In the Baggage Coach Ahead that went on to be a very popular song and the biggest hit of Davis’ career.

I set out to find the song and at the Library of Congress I found a recording of it from 1925, and on many other sites such as this one I found the lyrics. Read on to listen to the song and read the lyrics.

Listen here to the song (mp3 format), while you read along with the lyrics. And just try not to get choked up.

In the Baggage-Coach Ahead

On a dark stormy night, as the train rattled on,
All the passengers had gone to bed,
Except one young man with a babe in his arms
Who sat there with a bowed-down head.
The innocent one began crying just then,
As though its poor heart would break.
One angry man said, “Make that child stop its noise,
For it’s keeping all of us awake.”

“Put it out,” said another, “Don’t keep it in here;
We’ve paid for our berths and want rest.”
But never a word said the man with the child,
As he fondled it close to his breast.
“Where is its mother? Go take it to her,”
this a lady then softly said.”
I wish I could,” was the man’s sad reply.”
But she’s dead in the coach ahead.”

While the train rolled onward, a husband sat in tears,
Thinking of the happiness of just a few short years.
Baby’s face brings pictures of a cherished hope that’s dead,
But baby’s cries can’t waken her in the baggage coach ahead.

Every eye filled with tears when his story he told
Of a wife who was faithful and true;
He told how he’d saved up his earnings for years,
Just to build up a home for two;
How when Heaven had sent them this sweet little babe,
Their young happy lives were blessed;
His heart seemed to break when he mentioned her name,
And in tears tried to tell them the rest.
Every woman arose to assist with the child;
There were mothers and wives on that train.
And soon was the little one sleeping in peace,
With no thought of sorrow or pain.
Next morn at a station he bade all goodbye,
“God bless you,” he softly said,
Each one had a story to tell in their homes
Of the baggage coach ahead.

400 Days

Bush's Last DayThis morning I slept until noon, exactly noon. That’s late for me, even for a Sunday, but I think I know why I did it. Because at noon today the countdown on the time remaining for the disastrous presidency of George Bush ticked down to 400 days. Without forgetting for a moment how much damage this nitwit can still inflict on our country in that amount of time, it is at least something firm to grasp onto. Next month, reaching the one-year point will provide another major milestone, as attention will increasingly be paid to the race among those who will, hopefully after a legitimate election, earn the Presidency and begin the daunting, if not impossible task of undoing what Bush hath wrought. In the meantime, keep your eye on the countdown.

NGP Portfolio Profile

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My boss was profiled on the web site, Portfolio.com.

Last month I marked my three-year anniversary working at NGP, and this year the company celebrated it’s 10th year in business. I count myself very lucky to work for a company where I admire and enjoy my colleagues, and feel very proud of the work that we do.

Thanks Nathaniel, I appreciate it.

The Wasteful Flush

Pardon the unpleasant topic, but this is something we all do, every day, and it should be done regularly and well. But my office building recently installed automatic flushing mechanisms on the toilets and urinals in our building, and each day I get angrier about it.

On the urinals, they are fine. You stand there, take your leak, shake twice, put it away, and walk away. And only after you have stepped away from the urinal, does the auto-flush system recognize that you are no longer standing there, and then does it’s job and flushes. No hands, no fuss, no waste.

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But on the toilets, auto flushers are a disaster. You sit down, drop a stool (good word eh?), stand up to do the paper work…and FLUSH!!! Wait, I’m not done, I have a handful of used toilet paper here! So you finish the cleanup work, drop the paper in the toilet, and use the manual override button to flush once again. Two flushes, a BM interrupted by one of them, and you still have to touch something unless you want to leave a bowl of dirty wet toilet paper for the next visitor.

WTF? Really, am I doing it wrong?

I turned to the Google to research, and found this interesting blog post titled ‘How to Wipe Your Ass‘, in which a survey of 259 individuals explored their various techniques; standing or sitting, and wiping direction. I’m not going to get into direction, but I was interested to see that of the 185 men surveyed, sitting while wiping beat out standing 132 to 53.

So us standing wipers are in the minority, but a significant enough one to not be ignored. I’m not going to change my technique developed since mom handed over the job to me as a toddler, just because the Zurn auto-flusher’s electric eye sees light between my legs when I stand up!

The Google search was very interesting, and I was glad to find I was not the only one outraged over this. And I was glad also to see a simple and satisfactory solution suggested, the foot-pedal flush. I have a dream, that one day I will have both the ability to avoid touching bathroom fixtures unnecessarily with my hands, but also be the master of my own flush. You just have to believe.

For further reading:

The Crappiest Invention of All Time
Slate Magazine, 3/7/2006

Standing vs. Sitting: How Do YOU Wipe?
Collegehumor.com, 4/5/2007

A Winter Sting

The Washington Post recently had a column about stocking your winter bar, and I have a lot of respect for someone who can make their living telling others what to drink and so naturally, I will listen. In re-telling how he first learned the distinction between summer and winter drinks, the author Jason Wilson described how when he was ‘young and clueless’ a successful friend introduce him to the concept of a ‘winter drink’, after disparagingly pointing out that the vodka tonic he ordered on that cold autumn afternoon was a ‘summer drink’.

The implication was clear: What sort of adult doesn’t know when to switch from a summer drink to a winter drink? Or worse: What sort of soft generation was this that needed to be told how to drink at all?

Our typical winter standby has always been Bailey’s Irish Creme, which mixes equally well with coffee and hot chocolate, and is great on the rocks as well. But the Post provided an opportunity to expand those horizons. The main ‘winter drink’ described in the article is The Stinger, and so this weekend I set out to take another step towards adult drinking, and try one for myself.

I liked it. It’s definitely a sipping drink, which isn’t my typical (gulping) drinking style. But demonstrating a little patience, letting the ice melt a bit, and nursing a stinger was a fine way to enjoy a weekend cocktail (or a late mid-week work night as well). Try one.

UPDATE: I had no idea of the appropriateness of my blogging about liquor today, but it turns out that today is the anniversary of the repeal of Prohibition in 1933. That and the snow that is falling, is more than reason enough for another stinger!

Happy Birthday Will!

It's a Boy!  12/3/1992Fifteen years ago, December 3, 1992, I went to work, and so did my wife Jennifer. We didn’t know yet that you’d be born that afternoon, but your mom called me at work from the Doctor’s office and said, “Meet me at the hospital, the doctor says’ this baby is coming now!”. And later that afternoon, you arrived. Katie McGrath won my office’s baby pool to guess your arrival date.

Anyway, that was 15 years ago. You and I both weigh more than we did in this photo. And your hair is much longer than it was then. But I still have the sweater, wore it just last week. Maybe I’ll give it to you on your 16th birthday!

Happy Birthday Will! We’re very proud of you, and love you very much.

Campaign Web Sites, The Morning After

I woke up yesterday, and realized that I had an opportunity. The opportunity to review some campaign web sites on the morning after Election Day, to see how many of them had yet updated their content. What I found was worse than I expected. I wrote it up in an article that was published today on the Personal Democracy Forum site…

Campaign Web Sites, The Morning After
Personal Democracy Forum

Election Day

It’s Election Day, and I have cast my vote. It’s an action that makes me both proud. But today I’m also sad and concerned at the same time.

I’m proud to be an American, and to live in a democracy where citizens have an critical role to play in our governance. I consider voting to be a civic duty, and I encourage others to do the same.

I’m sad to see major races on my ballot go unchallenged, with only an incumbent running, and happily holding their ‘safe’ seat. In a couple instances, I wrote myself in rather than vote for them. I’m sad because I’m reminded how our current President illegitimately gained the most powerful elected office in the world, and for all the harm he has done while in it. 441 more days, assuming he doesn’t pull a Musharraf/Putin and try to cling to power after his time is up. Given his record, it wouldn’t surprise me at all.

I’m concerned because our election system is in bad shape. For starters, Why Tuesday? That makes no sense at all. Why isn’t Election Day a national holiday? Or a multi-day event? I’m currently reading the book, Stealing Democracy, and it’s sobering to be reminded how gerrymandered districts, partisan election officials, and a patchwork of election eligibility/registration/voting rules can all be used to skew or determine an election’s outcome.

But neither my sadness or concern can overcome my hope and determination. They will move me to action and change. Please vote today.

UPDATE: Looks like most of the wrong candidates won here in Prince William, so you can add ‘discouraged’ to the above feelings. Silver lining, Democrats took control of Virginia’s Senate for the first time in something like 40-years.

New Movie Tradition

V_for_Vendetta_mask.jpgSo today I thought about Guy Fawkes

“Remember, remember the fifth of November,

The gunpowder, treason and plot,

I know of no reason

Why gunpowder treason

Should ever be forgot.”

 

I honestly know little of Guy Fawkes, but when I got home I was happy to find my kids already watching V for Vendetta, and I settled in to watch it with them. It was a good movie to watch on an Election Eve. I’m guessing we’ve got a new annual movie tradition to watch on November 5th.

It will join another annual November must watch movie, which is of course, Planes, Trains & Automobiles on Thanksgiving Eve.

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